Basically I'm Gay

  • katma 13 Haz 2019
  • Let me tell you a queer little story about a boy named Dan.
    Follow me online to see the rest of my tale as it unfolds in real time:
    And subscribe to my channel! (lol)
    Content warning: this video contains far too much strong language and discussions of general sexuality, discriminatory language, bullying and an attempt on my own life. Otherwise totally appropriate for education, instilling good values in young children and my grandma who I will expect a disappointed text from.
    Special thanks to for production assistance.
    Art by Hector aka swatercolour
    Handel - Messiah
    Camille Saint-Saëns - Danse Macabre
    Tchaikovsky - 1812 Overture
    Chopin - Fantasie Impromptu
    Schubert - Ave Maria
    Additional Music by Kevin Macleod
    Disclaimer - This video is just a starting point for me, what I felt was the bare minimum (ha) required for me to get this out there so I can move forward with my life, a mix of explanation, justification and opinion. It scratched the surface of several things I could have gone into more detail about, but the purpose of this was to be ..reasonably concise and above all entertaining. In the future, in the right places, I will surely talk much more about everything touched on in this video and more. It’s also likely that something will get misunderstood or misrepresented, perhaps from the way I phrased things or people assuming my thoughts on things that I didn’t specify. Also my story is just the truth of what happened to me and what I thought at certain points of time in my environment, good and bad - of course not my opinions today. So JUST to be clear my opinion on general sexual and gender identities are that everyone is valid and deserves equal rights and the freedom to exist. The only thing I don’t tolerate is intolerance. Cheers to an inevitable bright future, either because people become nice and the old people die or the sun explodes first lmao.
    Some resources and charities for anyone who needs support or wants to learn more:
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  • AshTheGamer1037 -
    AshTheGamer1037 - 5 saatler önce +1

    My mind LIVES in the gutter, love your videos, you keep me semi-sane❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • Rosa Lee
    Rosa Lee 6 saatler önce

    Dan..... This is the first video I've ever seen of yours. And I already think you're adorable lol. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm glad you found yourself, and I'm sorry that your school life was so horrid *hugs*

  • Iris Rolain
    Iris Rolain 9 saatler önce +1

    catch me rewatching this for the 372289493th time

  • Kylah Blossom
    Kylah Blossom 16 saatler önce +1

    *Ah shit, here we go again...*

  • blacked out peach
    blacked out peach 21 saatler önce

    You don't look a day over 17 babe👏🏽

  • Δηgει
    Δηgει 22 saatler önce

    We knew

  • Hayden Rozier
    Hayden Rozier 23 saatler önce +2

    After this... I'm even more happy that Dan and Phil found each other. :,)

  • Eva Abbott
    Eva Abbott Gün önce +3

    me watching Contrapoints' new video: huh, Oscar Wilde sounds familiar....

  • abbie
    abbie Gün önce +2

    are we not going to talk about the black sequin jacket

  • Amanda Chapman
    Amanda Chapman Gün önce +1


  • JuliaBug
    JuliaBug Gün önce

    Now we know where he got this format from....contrapoints omfg hi how are yOu?

  • Big Yikes
    Big Yikes Gün önce +4

    Only Dan can make 45 minutes feel like 10

  • VoiD
    VoiD Gün önce

    Trust me, we knew

  • Maria
    Maria Gün önce +2

    Andddd I'm back to rewatching this again

  • Perfecto Benny
    Perfecto Benny Gün önce +4

    1 million likes!

  • Debbie Frye
    Debbie Frye 2 gün önce +3

    Thank God you are still here! Keep being you :)

  • deo bi
    deo bi 2 gün önce +1

    ok bitch now come back

  • Dannyboy1012 Tv
    Dannyboy1012 Tv 2 gün önce +3

    This video in one sentence....... me

  • [Shalom Felix]
    [Shalom Felix] 2 gün önce +5

    **sees title**
    Me: same

  • Ava Maldonado
    Ava Maldonado 2 gün önce +1

    who else wanna c dan with colourful hair

  • Phantom Black
    Phantom Black 3 gün önce +3

    Back here again for the nth time

  • selome yared
    selome yared 3 gün önce +2

    always be supporting ya 💓💓💗.

  • Simone :D
    Simone :D 3 gün önce +1

    Ya I did that whole watching this everyday till he uploads but I have pretty much given up at this point 😂

  • Ella Bradley
    Ella Bradley 3 gün önce +4

    And obviously we were more that friends”
    Me: hipxfzdtDutsfiyxfvguoviphvyifuistuodrytiodrodrousofofudgpidgp i want them to be together again. Like, TOGETHER together i hope they still are

  • Emily May
    Emily May 3 gün önce +6

    When he says "Literally" at 19:53 you can tell he's trying not to cry and it kills me

  • Paulina
    Paulina 3 gün önce +1

    OMG. I'm so sorry for all the bullying you had to endure and so glad that you are still here! I'm proud of you.

  • Emily May
    Emily May 3 gün önce +3

    I know he seems so cheerful and witty about it but it makes me so sad how bullied he was.

  • YoKaz
    YoKaz 3 gün önce


    • Ruby Red
      Ruby Red Gün önce +3

      Fuck off

    • PIG
      PIG 2 gün önce +4

      Ew not being accepting of other people’s differences 🤢🤮

    • idk idc
      idk idc 3 gün önce +4

      Um how ??

    • mat
      mat 3 gün önce +4

      lmao what??

  • Alex Sac
    Alex Sac 3 gün önce +2

    You deserved better, society failed u and u found light. Hope u come back to TRclips❤️

  • Lily Trasler
    Lily Trasler 3 gün önce +4

    *looks at formless blob* that me.

  • Natalie Klotzbeacher
    Natalie Klotzbeacher 3 gün önce +2

    ☃️☃️☃️☃️ me wanting to hug him so much because I don’t think I’ve ever been so proud and grateful of someone’s existence and You cannot believe how much good you have done for me and others. Thank you

  • Natalie Klotzbeacher
    Natalie Klotzbeacher 3 gün önce +6

    I’m rewatching it. Again. The 39th time. Because I miss his voice.

  • Elizabeth Bolton
    Elizabeth Bolton 4 gün önce +3

    Is that dude the reason you don't like your neck touched??
    I bet I'm wrong but still, it is a very sad thought.

  • Darren Clarke
    Darren Clarke 4 gün önce +1

    Second or third time I've watched this and a lot to relate to, I saw the same and much worse.
    Thanks Dan, an insight to your journey. I hope everything is better going forward.

  • Stina Johansson
    Stina Johansson 4 gün önce +2

    Did my homework while watching this and didn't even play forward ⏩

  • Karinimi
    Karinimi 4 gün önce +1

    Thank you for this emotional video and thank you for fighting and staying alive.

  • dani gibson
    dani gibson 4 gün önce +1

    Les Mia reference at 3:55

  • _ HuffleProud _
    _ HuffleProud _ 4 gün önce

    Wtf we were all right lol

  • char bar
    char bar 4 gün önce

    I told my mum but she forgot so I have the stress all over again😭😭😭

    KITTY 4 gün önce

    good story but a bit long i must say

  • Atalie :D
    Atalie :D 4 gün önce


  • taylor milano
    taylor milano 4 gün önce

    I miss you

  • Known Nowhere
    Known Nowhere 5 gün önce +2

    I, watching this 4 months later, still cry because of this

  • Sunniva Milne
    Sunniva Milne 5 gün önce +2

    1 million likes, finally.

  • Luka
    Luka 5 gün önce

    Absolutely nobody:
    Not even my dog:

    Fans: who's the giver, who's the taker 😉😏

    • Mylou Hedwig
      Mylou Hedwig 4 gün önce

      Did you actually see someone say that bc I’m ready to fight

    ZERKBEZERK YEeT 5 gün önce +3

    Non-binarys should be the formless blobs, cause people ask “are you a boy or a girl” we go. “N o”

  • erin_i_k4
    erin_i_k4 5 gün önce +7

    My favourite word ever: CLUSTERFUCK

  • jackoghost
    jackoghost 5 gün önce

    you're not dead, so thats a good thing, welcome back maybe?

  • sad valentines
    sad valentines 5 gün önce +3

    now we wait for another video...

    but so proud of u :)

  • User Name
    User Name 5 gün önce +3

    I crafted enough in the last 45 minutes to create my own Etsy shop

  • isabella ahuactzin
    isabella ahuactzin 6 gün önce +1

    Get him to 10 mil please

  • Icy Wolfina
    Icy Wolfina 6 gün önce +1

    Happy 1 million likes

  • Alex Menzies
    Alex Menzies 6 gün önce +2

    Yes dan the best

  • Alisha Gurumukhi
    Alisha Gurumukhi 6 gün önce

    Yes that is unhealthy and you should stop doing that

  • Alisha Gurumukhi
    Alisha Gurumukhi 6 gün önce +1

    Thank you for making this video because i think that personally there's a lot of things in there that i really require to apply in mt own life.
    Like seriously thank you.

  • Danisnotonhischair
    Danisnotonhischair 6 gün önce +4


  • TinyDonut Crusader
    TinyDonut Crusader 6 gün önce +2

    I too am a formless blob.

  • Yeetus Defetus
    Yeetus Defetus 6 gün önce

    James and tatis bidio nahhh dans vid SIGN ME UP

  • Lexie Bisignano
    Lexie Bisignano 6 gün önce +4

    I’m really struggling right now. I keep watching this.

  • D'Ziya Bright
    D'Ziya Bright 6 gün önce +2

    Anyone here after 1 million likes?